Tips and Tricks for Breastfeeding: The Ultimate Guide for New Moms

Tips and Tricks for Breastfeeding: The Ultimate Guide for New Moms

Hey there, supermom! Whether you’re about to embark on your breastfeeding journey or you’re a few weeks in and looking for some pro tips, you’re in the right place. Breastfeeding is a beautiful, challenging, and sometimes downright hilarious adventure, and we’ve got some insider tips and tricks to make the ride a little smoother. So, grab your favorite snack (you deserve it!), get comfy, and let’s dive in.


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1. The Perfect Latch: It’s All About the Angle

Let’s start with the basics: the latch. Getting a good latch can make all the difference between a comfy nursing session and feeling like you’ve got a tiny piranha attached to you. Here’s the trick: aim your nipple towards your baby’s nose, not their mouth. This encourages them to open wide, like a baby bird, and get a deep latch. A deep latch means less pain for you and more milk for baby—win-win!

Pro Tip: If you’re struggling, try the “flipple” technique (a mix of flip and nipple). Gently flip your nipple into your baby’s mouth by rolling it in with your thumb as they latch. It might take a few tries, but once you get the hang of it.

2. Hydrate Like a Pro

Here’s a fun fact: breastfeeding can make you as thirsty as a fish out of water! Keep a water bottle within arm’s reach at all times, especially during those long nursing sessions. Staying hydrated is key to keeping your milk supply up and your energy levels stable.

Pro Tip: Mix it up with flavored water, herbal teas, or a splash of juice if plain water isn’t doing it for you. Hydration doesn’t have to be boring! Liquid iv’s, Gatorade, Coconut water and Body armor were my favorite.

3. Snack Attack: Fueling Your Milk-Making Machine

Breastfeeding burns a lot of calories (up to 500 a day!), so it’s important to keep your energy up with healthy snacks. Think nuts, fruit, yogurt, and granola bars. But let’s be real—sometimes, you just need a cookie. And that’s okay too. Oatmeal cookies and Snickers were my guilty pleasure.

Pro Tip: Make a breastfeeding snack station next to your favorite nursing spot. Stock it with easy-to-grab goodies, a water bottle, and maybe even a little chocolate stash. You deserve it.

4. Get Cozy: Find Your Feeding Zen

You’ll be spending a lot of time nursing, so finding a comfy spot is essential. Whether it’s a cozy corner of the couch, a rocking chair, or a special nursing pillow, make sure you’re supported and comfortable.

Pro Tip: Create a breastfeeding “nest” with everything you need—pillows, snacks, your phone or a good book, and a blanket. Having a dedicated spot can make nursing feel like a little escape from the hustle and bustle of the day. But I can guarantee you will still call your husband to grab whatever is out of reach to avoid slipping out of that perfect position.

5. The Power of the Pump

Even if you’re exclusively breastfeeding, having a breast pump can be a lifesaver. It’s great for relieving engorgement, building up a stash of milk for later, or letting your partner take over a feeding so you can catch a nap (glorious, glorious nap).

Pro Tip: Pump in the morning when your supply is usually at its peak. And if you’re struggling to get the milk flowing, try looking at a photo or video of your baby—it can help trigger the letdown reflex. I found that using a hand pump helped me get more milk and I could control it better.

6. Painless Pumping: Heat and Massage Are Your Friends

If pumping feels more like torture than a relief, try using a warm compress or heating pad on your breasts before you start. This helps to relax the milk ducts and get the milk flowing more easily. Pair that with some gentle breast massage, and you’ll be pumping like a pro in no time.

Pro Tip: Invest in a hands-free pumping bra. It’s a game-changer that lets you multitask—because who has time to sit still?

7. Public Breastfeeding Confidence: You’ve Got This!

Breastfeeding in public can be intimidating at first, but remember: you’re feeding your baby, and that’s awesome. If you’re nervous, practice at home in front of a mirror to get the hang of it. And when you’re out, a lightweight scarf or nursing cover can give you some extra privacy if you want it.

Pro Tip: Wear easy-access clothing like button-down shirts or nursing tops. And don’t forget—you’re legally protected to breastfeed in public almost everywhere. You’ve got every right to feed your baby wherever you need to.

8. Nighttime Nursing: Embrace the Side-Lying Position

Nighttime feeds can be rough, but the side-lying position has been my lifesaver! This way, you and your baby can both stay cozy in bed while they nurse. Just be sure to follow safe sleep guidelines if you’re bed-sharing.

Pro Tip: Keep the lights low and use a white noise machine to keep your baby (and you!) calm and sleepy. The less stimulation during nighttime feeds, the easier it will be to drift back to sleep.

9. Leaky Situations: Embrace the Nursing Pads

Leaking is just part of the breastfeeding package, especially in the early days. Invest in some good nursing pads—reusable or disposable—and stash a few in your bag for when you’re out and about.

Pro Tip: If you find yourself leaking a lot during a feed, try pressing gently on the opposite breast with the palm of your hand. This can help stop the flow and save your shirt! You can also connect the hakka to the side your baby isn’t on to catch anything that leaks out.

10. Celebrate the Little Wins

Breastfeeding can be tough, but every little win is worth celebrating. Whether it’s making it through a cluster feeding marathon, figuring out a tricky latch, or simply making it through the day with a happy baby, take a moment to give yourself a pat on the back. Go ahead and celebrate with a snack as well 🙂

Pro Tip: Keep a journal or use a breastfeeding app to track your progress and celebrate milestones. Looking back on how far you’ve come can be a huge confidence booster on tough days. I used the Huckleberry app.


Breastfeeding is a journey, and every mom’s path is unique. Remember, there’s no “right” way to do it—just what works best for you and your baby. So, take these tips and tricks, adapt them to your needs, and most importantly, trust yourself. You’ve got this, mama! Here’s to a happy, healthy breastfeeding experience for you and your little one.

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